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Thursday 26 December 2013

Letter 11: Looking back on this year

Dear 16 Year Old Self,

I know I've written to you a lot about how much 2013 sucked for me. But it wasn't all bad. It was actually one of the funnest years I've had. I mean I'm 19. I can go where ever I like, drink what I like and party. I Got a job which I love and I'm studying what I love. I've faced a lot of experiences this year that have forced  me to understand some things and learn from them.

I was going to get into every little experience, but that's ganna take the fun out for you when you get here. Just know that everything that happens to you, good and bad has a reason. You're meant to learn from everything that happens. Nothing is in vain. Knowing this doesn't make the bad times better, but it sure as hell makes it easier. The only way out is through. And once you make it through...You're going to look back at the year and realise how far you've come.

That's what I'm doing now. And I'm proud of myself. I thought I'd never survive losing the guy I loved. But I did. And here I am. Stronger and ready for whatever life has for me next.

You're strong. And you're independent. You don't need anyone else to drive you, you're self driven, and that's whats going to get you through the worst times of your life.

Keep your friends close though. I mean it. You're going to need those guys when you get older. They're literally the foundation that keeps you steady when all you want to do is fall to the ground.

You've got a lot of living ahead of you the next few years. But I'll tell you a secret.

You survive.
Because you're a survivor.

Just keep looking forward and keep your eye on the prize.

Merry Christmas and Happy New year

Yours,
19 Year Old Nadine